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To all the ladies and gents on WordPress, I suggest NEVER sharing your blog with other people. You will undoubtedly get backstabbed and haunted by people who you wanted out of your lives. All I know is, I was true to the Irish Gentleman, I even shed tears over him, and for what? To be called a liar and probably a whole list of other names he has for me that he did not want to make public.
Think what you want of me, whoever is reading, but I am a genuine caring person. I JUST got into a relationship TONIGHT. I was never in one when I was with the Irish Gentleman. As a matter of fact I had cut that person out of my life at that point. But we just recently reconciled and made a go of it. I hate to do this to my readers, because it’s nothing but drama, but NEVER SHARE YOUR BLOG WITH ANYONE, EVER. Under no circumstances. I am warning you because this is what happened to me. I got it used against me. I shouldn’t care about what he thinks of me because I am the one that walked away, but it leaves a sour feeling in the pit of my stomach.
We all want our work recognized and appreciated by those we love. What better way to do it than immortalize them in your life on your blog? It may be fun and sweet to do but it’s the wrong thing to do. I don’t care if he hates me. I am glad he does. Now I can let go of all that guilt I was feeling. I am so stupid. I am too giving. I am too forgiving. But I know now how I messed up so my heart is hardened, and I can finally let go.
Goodbye, and don’t worry I WILL NEVER contact you again.
I’m so sorry this has happened to you. Sharing my blog with its subjects is something I’ve struggled with too. So far it has gone okay but I know eventually it will bite me in the ass.
Not everyone can be open minded and accepting. Fuck those people.
Move on and keep writing! 💖
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I hope you’re okay. I am worried about sharing my blog and I have so far stayed anonymous and I am really careful to not include identifying features.
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I love this – you got yourself a new follower! I look forward to future reads. 🙂 Don’t worry about anyone – you do you. You can never please everyone, someone will always have something negative to say. It’s up to you how you choose to deal with the cards dealt to you. I look forward to more of your writing xxx
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i kind of understand what you mean about not sharng your blog with others, or “them”.
my blogs are pretty much goodbye letters to peole i really care about, but no longer have contact with. they will be sent the links after i pass away. my hope is that they will read just how much they really meant to me.
i shared a few posts with one of them, and i could feel her heart melt as she replied to what i had sent her. maybe thats why she cut ties again the following week. i dont know.
i eant them to know just how much i really live them, but am too scared to just come right out and saynit to them.
i wish they would find them before i pass away, read them completely, and could feel just how important they are to me.
but it probably wont happen until after i am dead. if they will even take the time to read them then…
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